tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post295017762220799001..comments2023-04-27T08:26:25.215-07:00Comments on Making the Moments Count: A Time to Holdamber_mtmchttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17871256362646081536noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-86598410376049218652011-10-23T17:51:12.000-07:002011-10-23T17:51:12.000-07:00My girl is seven months now and I am enjoying watc...My girl is seven months now and I am enjoying watching her grow. I don't think I will be someone who misses the days when she was a baby- I am looking forward to so much and think every stage she reaches is important.prague hen weekendhttp://www.henprague.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-21067819188940317772011-02-07T16:50:13.000-08:002011-02-07T16:50:13.000-08:00My youngest is a head taller than me. I still make...My youngest is a head taller than me. I still make him sit on my lap from time to time. Who needs the snuggles more, me or him? I'm not sure. But I know that those snuggles planted early are growing tall.rebecca @ altared sphttp://altaredspaces.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-69934248465999024612011-02-06T16:20:32.000-08:002011-02-06T16:20:32.000-08:00I didn't learn this lesson until I had my seco...I didn't learn this lesson until I had my second and had a better appreciation of how the time goes. Now I want a third just so I can get the time that I rushed away with my first back. My 2-year-old loves to be held and carried. I indulge as much as I can!Christinehttp://coffeesandcommutes.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-80109602292275308902011-02-06T05:50:03.000-08:002011-02-06T05:50:03.000-08:00Poor little Andrew. I hope his sickness has subsid...Poor little Andrew. I hope his sickness has subsided. <br> <br><br> <br>And thanks for this reminder to hold onto what's important and keep your mind's eye on the bigger picture. I thinking having children 6 years apart, I've done a better job at really appreciating and enjoying the early years with my youngest. I wish I'd savored these times with my oldest, but I'm savoring his years now. It's never too late to start.Kellyhttp://www.themillermix.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-19584812471824796092011-02-06T02:01:03.000-08:002011-02-06T02:01:03.000-08:00I am so glad you can hold him. As much as you wan...I am so glad you can hold him. As much as you want. :)Marvett Smithhttps://savoringthesimple.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-1379820025822899132011-02-04T19:08:48.000-08:002011-02-04T19:08:48.000-08:00I'm trying to come back. Michael is going to ...I'm trying to come back.<br> <br><br> <br>Michael is going to be nine this year and he is still attached at my hip. I would be lying if I said that a day felt right without having to scrape him off at least once. He's my cuddly-buggly-boo.Boingerheadhttp://boingerhead.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-23624432953977816402011-02-03T16:16:36.000-08:002011-02-03T16:16:36.000-08:00Hi Amber, I've seen this button and related po...Hi Amber, I've seen this button and related posts on other blogs, and had always admired this meme the most and wanted to one day try my hand at it. I didn't realize it was yours! Anyway, this is my first visit here - thanks so much for your nice comment on my blog a couple of days ago!<br> <br><br> <br>I think you're so wise. When my son was an infant I did, more often than I care to admit, "wish" those moments away. Like Stacia too I often found my mind leaping to the next thing I wanted to do. I knew I would regret it one day, but at that moment I just wanted my own space. Well, I have plenty of it now. My son's going to turn 7 soon, and while he is still very snuggly and still very much a mama's boy, he has alot of competing offers to spend time with his buddies now. He's my only so I don't have a second chance to do it "right." You're awesome - savor those sweet moments!Ceciliahttp://onlyoublog.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-33063698749646499462011-02-03T07:55:27.000-08:002011-02-03T07:55:27.000-08:00This is the conclusion I reached with my baby too ...This is the conclusion I reached with my baby too who is much clingier than her brothers. But I try to make more moments to soak it up.Melanie Jacobsonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-36314826905201301662011-02-03T02:55:17.000-08:002011-02-03T02:55:17.000-08:00Look at his little face!Look at his little face!Kazzyhttp://www.kazzysponderings.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-88853837096903088312011-02-03T02:49:29.000-08:002011-02-03T02:49:29.000-08:00You know - today I dropped my 17-year old at his f...You know - today I dropped my 17-year old at his former elementary school, where he is going to be volunteering, helping an architect and his old art teacher run some after school classes for 4th and 5th graders - on architecture.<br> <br><br> <br>I walked through the halls of the school that felt like a second home to me for 7 years, through both boys - rooms where I volunteered, where I sat in the back and watched little faces, where I held my own boys on my lap listening to their teachers read, where I sat proudly watching each one get an elementary school "diploma" of sorts.<br> <br><br> <br>It isn't that it goes so fast exactly - when you're in it - there are days and nights that drag terribly. But when you look at a young man you've nurtured and guided and held and cherished - and you know you've given him your best, it's then, that you realize what a privilege it is. That the moments of their holding you and needing you in that way are finite. Sometimes exhausting. But mostly, very precious.BigLittlewolfhttp://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2011/02/02/its-not-my-problem/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-14760140424032476542011-02-02T18:00:37.000-08:002011-02-02T18:00:37.000-08:00I used to do that for the middle of the night feed...I used to do that for the middle of the night feedings...instead of thinking of how tired I was, I'd just try to enjoy the quiet time between the two of us.Tiffanyhttp://www.elastamom.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-36528789226123095522011-02-02T17:14:15.000-08:002011-02-02T17:14:15.000-08:00Do you have one of those baby slings? My personal...Do you have one of those baby slings? My personal favorite that I've seen is The Close. It comes from the UK but LOVE the design and have friends who ADORE it. Any of the carriers will do depending on preference and really helps free up the hands for kids that want to be cuddled all the time. Mopping, cooking, vacuuming, tending to the toddler, ect all become INFINITELY easier.Ashley Bybee Stepphttp://allaboutstepps.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-10324015016314215992011-02-02T07:29:36.000-08:002011-02-02T07:29:36.000-08:00Both my babies wanted to be held always. My first...Both my babies wanted to be held always. My first more. I got so many negative comments, but I loved holding those sweet babies. I still do. But my baby is getting all independent on me. Which is also good.<br> <br> <br> <br>I never understood what was so bad about having a babe in arms. It soothes me. <br> <br><br> <br> I love the idea of just choosing to see what is and enjoy it. Time moves swiftly.Katehttp://Watercoloringthetable.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-43123370372718470622011-02-02T07:04:43.000-08:002011-02-02T07:04:43.000-08:00Amber, I always relate to your writing. I feel as ...Amber, I always relate to your writing. I feel as though I could have written this myself.<br> <br><br> <br>My youngest will be six (!) in two weeks, and I can honestly say that I have savored every moment with her for the past four years (the first couple were a little tough). And still the time has passed too quickly. I almost ache to think of the experiences that are finished forever.<br> <br><br> <br>I'm thrilled that you are able to relish both the current, needy moments and his growth in the future.Mrs.Mayhemhttp://www.motheringmayhem.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-53826433494837741672011-02-02T05:18:28.000-08:002011-02-02T05:18:28.000-08:00My husband and I talk about when our daughter will...My husband and I talk about when our daughter will stop wanting to be around us. She is always wanting to be in our space these days and sometimes I just want to be free of it, but I remind myself that these days will be numbered. Hope your little one feels better soon.Rudrihttp://www.beingrudri.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-29141100153516005602011-02-01T21:48:43.000-08:002011-02-01T21:48:43.000-08:00My youngest being almost 7 (next week!), I am find...My youngest being almost 7 (next week!), I am finding more and more opportunities to relish in the little things. Things that will be lost soon enough. I don't need to rush them away, nor do I want to. I love how you just "make up your mind". It seems so hard, but I think it's really as simple as that.Cathyhttp://www.alliwanttosay.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-5278675800002162052011-02-01T21:47:28.000-08:002011-02-01T21:47:28.000-08:00I find it so hard to just stop and enjoy snuggling...I find it so hard to just stop and enjoy snuggling my babies. My mind always races with the laundry that needs folding, the dishes that need washing, the dinner that needs cooking, the floors that need cleaning, and on and on. <br> <br><br> <br>I know that one day all too soon they won't want to be snuggled and I'll kick myself for having squandered this precious time. Thanks for the reminder, and I hope your little guy is on the mend soon.Staciahttp://www.myfluffybunnies.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-36827354051702328722011-02-01T20:27:17.000-08:002011-02-01T20:27:17.000-08:00My third baby is like that, LOVES to be held and s...My third baby is like that, LOVES to be held and snuggled. I'm learning more and more to just relax and love it. I've had those comments from people at church about how tiring it must be to have a baby that needs me so much, but I know how fast babies grow, and I know that I will miss it when she gets bigger.Young Momhttp://www.ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com