tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post1625624521844551171..comments2023-04-27T08:26:25.215-07:00Comments on Making the Moments Count: My Ambiguous Lossamber_mtmchttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17871256362646081536noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-18565849716815757092010-09-20T01:26:19.000-07:002010-09-20T01:26:19.000-07:00Amber, I have been traveling and moving for the pa...Amber, <br>I have been traveling and moving for the past few weeks and so have only just seen the updates on your blog. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your testimony and for being so brave to share your story. I would love to do anything I can for you. Please know I am praying for you and your sweet family. <br> <br>love, StephStephaniehttp://bowmanandstephanie.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-13377060072740033182010-09-17T01:02:10.000-07:002010-09-17T01:02:10.000-07:00So sorry for your loss. Grief is something so per...So sorry for your loss. Grief is something so personal and yet something that needs to be shared. Bless you for sharing your pain and your healing with us.Shawnahttp://lilbitsquishy.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-11375145672107004892010-09-13T06:31:14.000-07:002010-09-13T06:31:14.000-07:00Sometimes we just need something physical to embod...Sometimes we just need something physical to embody the emotional in order to fully appreciate and feel it. I think the memorial service is a good idea.Nataliehttp://boingerhead.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-53987552658614070772010-09-13T00:46:32.000-07:002010-09-13T00:46:32.000-07:00hammy, i love you!hammy, i love you!ashleyhttp://aamuns.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-26327617787730359522010-09-12T22:31:55.000-07:002010-09-12T22:31:55.000-07:00The memorial service is a great idea. I think tha...The memorial service is a great idea. I think that you'll find it helps a lot. I wish I had thought of doing that when I had the miscarriage. Perhaps I would have an easier time dealing with it now, if I had been more open. I have told very few people about it and now, almost 7 months later, it seems silly to bring it up. <br>I'm thinking of you and your family every day. <br>xoxoxdbnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-89959613265957927032010-09-12T16:45:47.000-07:002010-09-12T16:45:47.000-07:00I so applaud you for your honesty and bravery here...I so applaud you for your honesty and bravery here. I think it is wonderful that you are able to write about this experience, this unambiguously tragic experience. We are all here and will be. <br> <br>xoxoAidan Donnelley Rowlhttp://ivyleagueinsecurities.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-42217021656725073262010-09-12T07:04:13.000-07:002010-09-12T07:04:13.000-07:00I've been thinking about you. Sending up some ...I've been thinking about you. Sending up some prayers!Missy @ Wonder, Friehttp://www.wonderfriend.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-15357438519666915682010-09-12T05:44:41.000-07:002010-09-12T05:44:41.000-07:00I wish you well as you navigate through your grief...I wish you well as you navigate through your grief. I hope the memorial service helps along the path. We went to one for a still born of my friend last year and it was beautiful. I think it really helped her.Charlottehttp://latermom.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-89306643987187043992010-09-12T02:59:26.000-07:002010-09-12T02:59:26.000-07:00Oh honey, it's so raw and intense, isn't i...Oh honey, it's so raw and intense, isn't it? I'm glad you're putting it into words...it helps a little, when dealing with the why-doesn't-this-feel-real? feeling.Kimberlyhttp://temporaryinsanitybykym.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-66459507110599450122010-09-12T02:04:06.000-07:002010-09-12T02:04:06.000-07:00I admire your courage in sharing your grief. It is...I admire your courage in sharing your grief. It is often the hardest things to do so soon after a heartbreaking loss. Hoping the words you write and share provide you solace in this time. I am so sorry.rudriphttp://www.beingrudri.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-70203160633927395182010-09-11T23:50:10.000-07:002010-09-11T23:50:10.000-07:00If you have never had a miscarriage then you don&#...If you have never had a miscarriage then you don't appreciate how devastating it is. I admire you for speaking out so bravely about how you are feeling and know that someone somewhere will be helped by reading this, just as I hope it is helping you to grieve and then in time move forward, never forgetting but moving on.Aging Mommyhttp://www.agingmommyblog.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-51748105963827757222010-09-11T22:13:41.000-07:002010-09-11T22:13:41.000-07:00My deepest condolences on your loss. May you find...My deepest condolences on your loss. May you find comfort in each other and your family and friends, and may G-d comfort you at this time. I hope that the memorial service helps. Lots of hugs and love, <br>RivkiRivkihttp://lifeinthemarriedlane.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-33980930671122947782010-09-11T21:01:19.000-07:002010-09-11T21:01:19.000-07:00I am glad that you have your faith (and your famil...I am glad that you have your faith (and your family and friends), but especially faith. I imagine that helps.Cathyhttp://www.alliwanttosay.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-80136649903330085202010-09-11T20:57:16.000-07:002010-09-11T20:57:16.000-07:00((you))((you))TheKitchenWitchhttp://thekitchwitch.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-54423654245081108542010-09-11T20:34:05.000-07:002010-09-11T20:34:05.000-07:00I am so grateful that you chose to share your preg...I am so grateful that you chose to share your pregnancy with us even though it was so early on. It seems to me that it would have been so much harder for you to grieve freely if you had kept it a secret! Raising two little kids and caring for your sweet hubby is hard enough without trying to stifle strong feelings of grief at the same time. You'd have to have a heart of stone (and we know you don't!!) xxooGG Mel & Papa Wanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-40503207059578861622010-09-11T11:33:59.000-07:002010-09-11T11:33:59.000-07:00Thanks for sharing, I was looking around and reall...Thanks for sharing, I was looking around and really like the site.Taylor@Miscarriagehttp://www.usmomssite.com/after-a-miscarriagenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-20318562268337432192010-09-11T10:19:03.000-07:002010-09-11T10:19:03.000-07:00Amber, I'm so very sorry for your lose. Your p...Amber, I'm so very sorry for your lose. Your posts are so very heartfelt. I pray that your pain will lessen over time. Heavenly Father knows your pain and would gladly take from you again. Talking about your baby does help.Jenniferhttp://magicaljourneyofbrianjenn.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-40639201981764052852010-09-11T08:56:46.000-07:002010-09-11T08:56:46.000-07:00I just want to send good wishes and to thank you f...I just want to send good wishes and to thank you for your brave and honest words in these last two posts—I know that you are not alone, and it is staggering, in a good way, to see how your authenticity will be here to comfort others just as you know that you are not alone. I have no wisdom for you, I defer to yours—but I do have warmth and admiration for your spirit and for the way you roll. Namasteprivilegeofparentinghttp://www.privilegeofparenting.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4521946248119237445.post-79512902717373588012010-09-11T08:05:54.000-07:002010-09-11T08:05:54.000-07:00We all get different impressions for different rea...We all get different impressions for different reasons, and grieving doesn't look the same for anyone.Kristina P.http://www.kristinapblogs.comnoreply@blogger.com